How Do I Find A Spouse?
It is a guideline for the Gnostic Single who want (without desire) to get married. Your spouse is not desired nor avoided. The spouse is a requirement to perform immaculate sexual magic, to return to the Garden of Eden, to be born again, and to return to the kingdom of Yod-Havah Elohim.
You must kill the desire looking for the spouse and wait patiently. Yod-Havah Elohim will provide you a spouse when it is time to get married. No humanoid can provide you a spouse. Do not use an online dating website or a social network for finding a spouse (Please see source below [How Do I Find A Spouse – Gnostic Teachings] to find out why). The result is inevitable failure.
Never look at externally beautiful women. Lower your eyes whenever you see beautiful women. It is best to kill all forms of adultery and noctural emissions than to fall into hypnotism by a beautiful women and throw away your immortality by lust. You must kill lust and desire with Ahava. Inside that externally beautiful woman resides a living devil, as I told you before (https://write.as/thewhitemagician/the-energy-of-hair) that beautiful women are known to unconsciously store more Luciferic/Satanic force than all the multitude of adulterous men combined. All women must appear modestly, not wearing any expensive forms of external beauty.
Did you not know that your worst enemy is a prostitute? Avoid her: the prostitute. The queen mother of fornication and of the prostitutes is Saint Mary, the abominable mother kundabuffer. Her antithesis is the Virgin Mary, the mother of Jesus Christ. Study the 6th Arcanum of the Tarot: Indecision.
Abhor all impurities and cultivate ahava (love) and goodness. The White Lodge is demanding on chastity, modesty, and purity. Please see Matthew 5:28.
Ahava is experienced, never believed in. As with Yod-Havah Elohim, thou shalt ahava thy spouse with all thy heart, and with all thy soul (alma), and with all thy might. The spouse (priestess-wife, or priest-husband for woman) that you choose is naturally born out of love, never out of karmic convenience, expectations, or limitations.
You are required only one spouse, no more and no less. Having more than one spouse creates another polarity which is polygamy. Polygamy equals adultery, and polygamists will never be able to awaken the Kundalini. Less than one spouse is single, and a single person cannot awaken the Kundalini.
The woman (or man for a woman) is the athanor in the language of Alchemy.
Always expect your spouse to be more or less imperfect. This is reality; everyone else is imperfect.
Upon meeting your spouse, talk to her about Gnosis a lot. Also teach your spouse sexual transmutation in order to slowly prepare your spouse into the immaculate sexual magic. Sexual energy is very atomic and powerful, and you must dominate and conquer the negative serpent.
For those who are single: Please wait patiently; your spouse will be there when it is time to get married. If your spouse appears, you will have no other choice than to accept her (or him if you are a woman). All wives must submit themselves unto their husbands and be ruled by their husbands. Husbands must rule over their wives and must treat them like fragile glass (be not bitter against them).
Please see also: Colossians 3:19, 1 Peter 3:1-7, Ephesians 5:21-33
Marriage is not desired nor avoided. Marriage is the path of the Tao. Likewise, your spouse is also part of the path of the Tao. Your spouse is not desired nor avoided, but earned with moral progress by means of purity, chastity, and works of goodness.
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